Please recommend some porn sites that present women and sex in a healthy, mature, beautiful, non-degrading way. Non-prurient interest is explained inside. Obviously NSFW.
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A female friend has started a conversation with me about porn. She's trying to figure out what she thinks about it, and wanted to hear my thoughts. Among other things, I explained that while I do look at porn, I dislike the sperm-gargling, gaping-asshole, piss-drinking mentality that characterizes a lot of mainstream porn these days, and would like to see more stuff that approaches sex as the beautiful thing it really is.
I'm not out to sway her opinion one way or the other, but I would like to show her the best that porn has to offer, if only to demonstrate that it doesn't have to be vile—that it's possible to depict sex explicitly and yet not exploitatively. I agree that a lot of porn is vile, but I don't think that's inherent in the medium—for whatever reason, that's just the way most pornographers choose to make it.
Two examples of the kind of thing I'm looking for (I don't know the policy on linking to porn sites from MeFi, so figure it out yourself if you're interested):
Abby Winters: Presents happy girls of all shapes and sizes expressing their sexuality on their own terms. They did some guy-girl stuff in the past—often real-life couples having sex on camera—which was brain-meltingly hot because you could tell that everything you were seeing was emotionally and physically real. I think they only do solo and girl-girl stuff now.
I Shot Myself: A site where women (again, of all shapes, sizes, and colors) submit photos of themselves, ranging from simple nudes to explicit sex with their boyfriends or girlfriends.
I'm most interested in stuff that depicts actual sex—solo female porn is a dime a dozen, and it's not really part of the problem at hand (the misogyny and general meatheadedness of mainstream hardcore porn). I'm mainly interested in heterosexual stuff for similar reasons, and also because my friend is avowedly straight (but not narrow).
To summarize: please direct me to porn that shows couples having sex the way real, loving, healthy couples have sex with each other. (This disqualifies most "amateur" porn, which is often made without one party's knowledge, posted as revenge after a breakup, just plain crappy, etc.) All are welcome to respond, but I'd especially like to hear from women. Thanks!
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